Looking out Loud

Trying to be a better dad, while still growing up myself

How can I be a better parent, and a better me?

Explore ways we’re trying at Dadspace:

“Don’t be such a dad” – How do I do that?

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I don’t know how not to be a dad. And I’m still learning how to be one, too.

No, dads do not have their shit together

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We’re works in progress. We sometimes crash. But we keep trying. Because that’s what real dads do.

The kind of dad who cries

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I was once lost in Hong Kong. Not really lost, lost. But certainly wandering without a great deal of purpose. I walked through markets, noted the contrast of beggars and…

Am I raising imposters?

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Beware of that over-praise x criticism combo. And be kind to yourself.

Discover ways to engage your kidscreate meaningful memories, and make learning fun.
Or just have a peek through another parent’s eyes.

Journeys of fatherhood…

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We’re moving our family to another country for a year

We’re submitting our family to an unnecessary experiment. Here’s why we’re leaving our simple life, and how we got organized to make it happen.

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What does 40 years look like?

Take a visual trip through the past 40 years. A memory lane full of thousands of photos, news stories, tech developments, and pop culture. A journey through the coevolution of my mind, body, and the world around.

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Guide your children by walking through your childhood

You are laying the foundation for your child’s future mind.

You f— up again. Congratulations!

Every time you notice you’ve reacted poorly, you take a step forward.

Where did my day go?

Stop saving time. Start paying attention.

Sometimes I just walk. And talk. To myself.

What did dad see today?

60-second reflections on life and little people.

Look who’s behind the wheel

It’s not your typical old dog.

Listen & Drive

Why my kids’ bedroom is like your life

Where you put your time and energy becomes your reality.

Listen & Change
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4 words to manipulate your kids

This isn’t science. But it does make transitions easier.

Listen & Transition

What should we teach our children?

The future is a great big question mark. Let’s train for that.

Listen & Teach