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Don’t be that dad at the ball game 1024 768 Looking out Loud

Don’t be that dad at the ball game

Be there with your kids, but don’t live through them.

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The dad behind the scenes 1024 768 Looking out Loud

The dad behind the scenes

Exactly where parents should aim to be.

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What should we teach our children? 1024 768 Looking out Loud

What should we teach our children?

The future is a great big question mark. Let’s train for that.

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Proof that your kids can change in remarkable ways 1024 768 Looking out Loud

Proof that your kids can change in remarkable ways

If he said “I’m the guy who’s changing” to this, then anything is possible.

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Why my kids’ bedroom is like your life 1024 766 Looking out Loud

Why my kids’ bedroom is like your life

Where you put your time and energy becomes your reality.

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A wife with a sexual problem 1024 768 Looking out Loud

A wife with a sexual problem

Your partner is aging, just like you. Be kind to each other.

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How to build an igloo snow fort 1024 768 Looking out Loud

How to build an igloo snow fort

This is fun. Just 3 steps to help winter spies do what they do best.

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When the destination is not the destination 1024 768 Looking out Loud

When the destination is not the destination

How often do you let yourself enjoy that space along the way?

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How I responded to an all-day tantrum (for better and worse) 1024 686 Looking out Loud

How I responded to an all-day tantrum (for better and worse)

The issue was his. But his dad discovered that he has room to improve too.

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“My brother’s like the windshield wiper on the left” 800 450 Looking out Loud

“My brother’s like the windshield wiper on the left”

He hops on me, I push him away. Just like siblings do.

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When your kids use your words against you 1024 768 Looking out Loud

When your kids use your words against you

Whether a spontaneous insight into reality, or just a child being funny—kids say the darndest things.

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Are your pancakes always round? 1024 768 Looking out Loud

Are your pancakes always round?

Psst: it’s not the only way to do it.

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“Mistakes welcome here: just pick them up” 1024 768 Looking out Loud

“Mistakes welcome here: just pick them up”

How to teach your kids a growth mindset, one spill at a time.

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Ask: What do you need from me that I’m not doing? 1024 768 Looking out Loud

Ask: What do you need from me that I’m not doing?

When was the last time you asked your partner what you can do better for them?

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First snow of the year 1024 768 Looking out Loud

First snow of the year

Beautiful, and delicious. Would you care for a snow banana?

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Have you found your Spy Point? 1024 768 Looking out Loud

Have you found your Spy Point?

Take a minute to climb out of your ravine, and look at life from above.

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My kids ran away from the table 1024 768 Looking out Loud

My kids ran away from the table

It’s happened more than once. And we’re just getting started.

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We’re (already/only) halfway done 1024 768 Looking out Loud

We’re (already/only) halfway done

A single word can flip your entire perspective. Got chocolate milk?

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Will your future self thank you? 1024 768 Looking out Loud

Will your future self thank you?

What you do today opens the way to the future you.

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Goodbye Christmas, hello new space 1024 768 Looking out Loud

Goodbye Christmas, hello new space

It’s a little sad seeing it go, but we’ve done a full reset to help.

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A non-routine event deserves a non-routine treat 1024 768 Looking out Loud

A non-routine event deserves a non-routine treat

A vaccine hangover prompts a twist of the typical rules.

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When Disneyland is “a little worse than my last vaccine” 892 668 Looking out Loud

When Disneyland is “a little worse than my last vaccine”

An unexpected roller coaster connects two unpleasant experiences. And unlocks the magic of a child’s mind.

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"A father doesn’t tell you that he loves you. He shows you."
“A father doesn’t tell you that he loves you. He shows you.” 1920 1080 Looking out Loud

“A father doesn’t tell you that he loves you. He shows you.”

This is half correct. Plus 10 ways to show your love.

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A new year starts today. How will you use it? 1024 683 Looking out Loud

A new year starts today. How will you use it?

Start by asking: what do you want to remember?

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My 2021 in 1 minute 1024 768 Looking out Loud

My 2021 in 1 minute

What happened this year? I dug through a daily journal and 10,000 photos to find out.

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Guide your children by walking through your childhood 1024 576 Looking out Loud

Guide your children by walking through your childhood

You are laying the foundation for your child’s future mind.

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My wife and I had the talk, again 1024 768 Looking out Loud

My wife and I had the talk, again

Are we over parenting? Are we pushing them enough? Who knows. But keep asking.

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Where’s the nativity pooper? 1024 768 Looking out Loud

Where’s the nativity pooper?

You know, that boy taking a dump behind the stable.

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The pooping log has arrived 1024 768 Looking out Loud

The pooping log has arrived

It wouldn’t be Christmas in our home without Caga Tió dropping off his holiday load.

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Your puppies will run away 1024 723 Looking out Loud

Your puppies will run away

And get lost, and get scared. Just wait with open arms.

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Creativity is now as important in education as literacy, and we should treat it with the same status.”
— Sir Ken Robinson

Remember…

“The greatest development is achieved during the first years of life, and therefore it is then that the greatest care should be taken. If this is done, then the child does not become a burden; he will reveal himself as the greatest marvel of nature.”
— Maria Montessori

“Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air. You name them: work, family, health, friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back.

But the other four balls—family, health, friends, and spirit—are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged, or even shattered. They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.”
― Brian Dyson

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