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The quality of a Monday morning mind 1024 768 Looking out Loud

The quality of a Monday morning mind

It’s not about the day. It’s how you show up.

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Tuning your kids into life’s music 720 405 Looking out Loud

Tuning your kids into life’s music

Why Christmas lights need good stories.

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The bird with bad vocal cords 1024 768 Looking out Loud

The bird with bad vocal cords

What kind of bird are you? Even more importantly, how do you treat other birds who stand out?

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Why dads really go to the gym 1024 683 Looking out Loud

Why dads really go to the gym

Your kids are numero uno. But you still need time for yourself.

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A Day in the Life of Marlon Bundo [audio book] 448 326 Looking out Loud

A Day in the Life of Marlon Bundo [audio book]

Listen to these voices: A boy bunny falls in love with another boy bunny. The Stink Bug (someone you know), doesn’t like it one bit. But friends vote that being different is okay.

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This will help you learn better 1024 645 Looking out Loud

This will help you learn better

Do you know what you think you know? Here’s how to make new knowledge stick.

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Look where I found 500 hours 2000 1122 Looking out Loud

Look where I found 500 hours

Are you making the most of your transitions?

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4 words to manipulate your kids 1024 768 Looking out Loud

4 words to manipulate your kids

This isn’t science. But it does make transitions easier.

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What makes a good teacher? 1024 768 Looking out Loud

What makes a good teacher?

Hint: It starts with getting their attention.

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My child doesn’t want my help with homework 1024 768 Looking out Loud

My child doesn’t want my help with homework

Here’s why it hurts so bad.

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The perfect Christmas tree farm
We found the perfect Christmas tree 1024 768 Looking out Loud

We found the perfect Christmas tree

But we still keep looking.

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I’ve glued the fall to my wall: How to make a leaf collage 906 474 Looking out Loud

I’ve glued the fall to my wall: How to make a leaf collage

I wanted to hold on to the fall colors. Here’s how we made leaf collages, and leaf Christmas ornaments. And where do leaves get their colors anyway?

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Where did my day go? 600 450 Looking out Loud

Where did my day go?

Stop saving time. Start paying attention.

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A night out with the homies 1024 768 Looking out Loud

A night out with the homies

Remember where you came from. And keep telling those stories.

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A recipe for creativity 1024 768 Looking out Loud

A recipe for creativity

On the joy—and theft—of making gingerbread houses.

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No idling, children breathing 1024 768 Looking out Loud

No idling, children breathing

Always running? Take time to idle when you need to.

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Frozen water with leaves
Can you really add 10 years to your life? 1024 768 Looking out Loud

Can you really add 10 years to your life?

On the magic of frozen water.

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Would you give your shirt away? 2560 1920 Looking out Loud

Would you give your shirt away?

It might make someone’s day.

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An ode to the leaf pile 1024 650 Looking out Loud

An ode to the leaf pile

Before sending them to their fiery grave, take a moment to say thank you.

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At a crossroads of joy and instruction 1024 709 Looking out Loud

At a crossroads of joy and instruction

I love to see kids laugh. Here’s a challenge for you.

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The last wave goodbye 1024 768 Looking out Loud

The last wave goodbye

Everything eventually comes to an end. It’s not sad, it’s a wake up call.

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180 days of bittersweet goodbyes. When will it end? 2033 1525 Looking out Loud

180 days of bittersweet goodbyes. When will it end?

Do you see commutes with kids as a chore? Instead see an extra 50 hours a year to invest with them. Hurry, these moments won’t last forever.

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Boy thinking by water - Growth mindset
Don’t tell your kids they’re smart: nurture a growth mindset [book quotes] 1280 853 Looking out Loud

Don’t tell your kids they’re smart: nurture a growth mindset [book quotes]

How do you raise kids to be smart and successful? To help, here are over 40 quotes and practical suggestions from Carol Dweck’s book, Mindset.

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We’re moving our family to another country for a year 1024 729 Looking out Loud

We’re moving our family to another country for a year

We’re submitting our family to an unnecessary experiment. Here’s why we’re leaving our simple life, and how we got organized to make it happen.

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Trick-or-treat at home
Fun pumpkin ideas for kids and grown-ups 1019 393 Looking out Loud

Fun pumpkin ideas for kids and grown-ups

Need some pumpkin inspiration? Here are Halloween pumpkin ideas that we’ve done—some easy, some trickier, all fun.

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How we trick-or-treat in a city that doesn’t trick-or-treat 2024 655 Looking out Loud

How we trick-or-treat in a city that doesn’t trick-or-treat

You don’t need neighbors for this trick-or-treat experience. Here’s how we fill bags with candy and heads with memories without leaving our house.

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Gratitude moment - Pebble shadows on morning gratitude walk
A morning moment of gratitude 1016 640 Looking out Loud

A morning moment of gratitude

In the mornings I walk. I try not to think, only observe. This 3-minute note on gratitude helps every time.

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Cornflour slime experiment
Cornflour slime: sink your fingers into this bizarre oobleck 1024 681 Looking out Loud

Cornflour slime: sink your fingers into this bizarre oobleck

It turns hard when you hit or squeeze it. But treat this oobleck gently, and you’ll have runny slime to pass the time.

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Sticky gratitude post-it notes
Sticky gratitude: preserving positive reflections from COVID lockdown days 1440 810 Looking out Loud

Sticky gratitude: preserving positive reflections from COVID lockdown days

We were going about our business, then the world shut down. But even with back-to-back video calls and full-time homeschooling, life was good.

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Esther & Marc Cinanni Mantranima
Why I cried on Black Friday 2560 1920 Looking out Loud

Why I cried on Black Friday

Black Friday is capitalism meets human psychology. And as the clock ticked down, my shopping cart collided with a deeply human dad moment.

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Creativity is now as important in education as literacy, and we should treat it with the same status.”
— Sir Ken Robinson

Remember…

“The greatest development is achieved during the first years of life, and therefore it is then that the greatest care should be taken. If this is done, then the child does not become a burden; he will reveal himself as the greatest marvel of nature.”
— Maria Montessori

“Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air. You name them: work, family, health, friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back.

But the other four balls—family, health, friends, and spirit—are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged, or even shattered. They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.”
― Brian Dyson

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